I know a thing or two about a thing or two. And this blog is the start of a vision, the continuance of a journey, and the closing of a book. I, like every other human on this planet, have been on a journey and I want to write it out. I am starting to braid together all the pieces of my fragmented self. Because I have suffered from fragmenting my world. How do I explain?
I felt like I had to separate all of the parts of me… How can I be an award winning business owner and a sexual being? How can I be a public speaker who has the ability to lift up and inspire when I was denying core parts of my heart? How can I be a survivor of horrific physical, psychological and emotional abuse and try to connect and be a healthy functioning member of society? How can I have gone from an award-winning dancer and dance teacher to 265+ pounds and down again? How can I have an eating disorder and throw large fundraisers around chocolate? How can I be a spiritual being and a party girl? I don’t know, but I am.
There are so many parts of me that contradict. And trying to segment them all led me to the second largest breakdown and reincarnation in my life: the first happened at 17 when I was disowned, and the second happened right before I turned 34. Now, at 34 I am willing to look at my past, present, and future and to braid together and accept all of the parts of me that I have tried to protect myself from.
The more I talk, the more I connect and the less I feel alone in my path. Because I have realized, that there are so many others that are fighting for their paths, step by step. Others who are surviving and making beautiful, abundant lives out of their exuberant, confusing and painful paths as well.
So this is my story, I am still writing it because I’m not dead yet. Oh, and I really like boots and shoes, but more about that later, we’ve got time.